On 1 months ago
So,life sucks even worse then before. What's new? My problems are minor and my parents are kinda acting immature. . . over stupid stuff. They don't understand me. any advice.
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Sounds like you should have stayed in bed today. Your post is pretty ambiguous, so it's hard to offer any wisdom on your issues.
Your parents probably understand more than you give them credit for. They were teenagers too. Things may change, times may be different, but humans are still the same. They love, they hurt, they're happy, they're sad.
As a parent, I wanted to protect my children from making the same stupid mistakes I did. But it didn't happen. Each person has to learn on their own. I've yet to meet a parent that didn't want their children to have a better life than the one the parent's had.
Sorry today sucks. Crawl under the covers, turn your ipod on and escape for awhile. Tomorrow is another opportunity for a wonderful day.
I understand that and I get what your saying but it is easier said then done. I try to understand where they are coming from but sometimes it's like try ing to read a white wall. A total waste of time and it's pointless. Being a parent of a teenager is tough but being that teenager is tougher. Thanx for commenting.
~truefeelings15~
if i were you i would just let them be, ingore how they act. I have the same problems with my family, though I just ingnore them
It won't solve the conflict if I did that although it does work sometimes.
~truefeelings15~
wish i could give u advice but i have the same prob. sorry.
It's okay I appreciate the comment.
~truefeelings15~
yeah i would just ignore them if theyre gonna be like that.
well I wish I could but that wouldn't solve my problem. I appreciate the comment though.
~Truefeelings15~
DO NOT IGNORE YOUR PROBLEMS, THEY WILL ONLY GET WORSE AND NOT GO AWAY! SILLY PEOPLE IGNORING THIEM IS THE ABSLOUTE THING NOOTTT TTOO DOO!!
now for what should be done
Im not sure if your a shy person or not, but your parents understand, they seriously do. But they think to back when they were a teenager and the problems they had which could very well be the same as yours and they remember how big and problematic those were to them and now they think about it and say it was no big deal so they just dont bother when you are talking about probably the same thing,they dont relize that if it is a feeling you have a thouh you have it IS your reality and they just think its stupid teenager stuff when really its not but try to look at the situation from there side of things and you may see that it is kinda silly or immature but if not you have to explain to your parents your TRUE feelings and if they love you they will try to help you best they can but there only humans too, but if you ever need to get into a detailed conversation Im here to listen and here to help
Thanks for the advice. . . I'm not a shy person (although I can be) . My parents act more like hormonal teenagers then parents. They fight. make up and out. If you know what I mean. They never take anything seriously unless it's not. I mean I was going through my problem with self-mutilation (cutting) and my parents flipped out thinking Im suicidal.(which I'm not) Anyways . . . and now going through extensive counciling they think I am healed. They act as if nothing happened and just now started to talk to me. after about two weeks. They think that just because I'm going to counciling that I don't have urges. It's stupid and yet yesterday at about 3:30 am I heard then arguing about q-tips. I don't know but thanks for commenting. I appreciate it.
~truefeeligs15~